If a patient is sure of her choice, understands other options, is not facing undue pressure and is not suffering from psychiatric illness, I am comfortable with proceeding with her sterilization in her 20’s, with or without children. I guess I could answer to this question. I was in my second grade when me and my mom was thrown out by my dad! I thought it was a similar kind of fight which they usually have and I assumed they both will be fine after a few days but it was not the 01 I may look like I’m listening to you but in my head I’m driving the general lee shirt moreover I will buy this same usual fight. Things changed rapidly where my mom finally came up with an idea of living separately. She was not earning that time; she was just an ordinary Indian housewife but she felt she could raise me up. It was not easy as she had to prove that she could raise me up! My mom first decided to take half of the benefits from my dad but it was of no avail, where I was forced to stay with my dad. My mom did not give up. To all the dads out there, if you could not really stay with your wife do not marry her or do not have kids with her. If you wanna marry someone whom you will divorce in the future , do have kids with her! And this applies to moms as they are not always correct. I really could understand that divorce was not on the cards when they got married but it should be avoided as much as possible . I really feel parents play a role model in every kid’s life. Dads play a vital role in it, as they are an integral part of a family though I could get love and affection from my mom, I really felt something was missing in my life and yearned for his care and affection. You never really know how much your kids loves you unless you spend time with them! Do not be money minded. Spend time as a family and be happy with whatever you have right now. Do not ask for more as you know this was not even there the previous day. In short, put emotions above all else, and you won’t need to even ask about corporal punishment. After all, feeling love, joy, fear, sadness, and anger, and being able to express it intelligently without barbaric behavior or violence is what sets us apart from the rest of the animal kingdom.
Why revert when we can keep moving forward? The children of Narcissistic parents who develop personality disorders (and not all do) generally become either Narcissistic or Schizoid. A few develop Borderline Personality Disorder. A lot depends on how abusive the 01 I may look like I’m listening to you but in my head I’m driving the general lee shirt moreover I will buy this parents are and whether they share their Narcissistic supplies with their children or only devalue and abuse them. These Narcissistic parents are focused on everyone in the family looking good and becoming high achievers. Although they have little empathy and insist that their children conform to their expectations, they will praise their children whenever they do well in school, win awards, or otherwise fulfill their assigned role in the family. The children’s role is to uncritically admire and obey them and treat them as Gods. Their every whim is law and their opinions are sacred. When the children do not go along with this program, they are devalued. They get rewarded with gifts, privileges, and attention when they do exactly as the parents say. Any individual initiative on the part of the children that is perceived as threatening the parents’ leadership is likely to be ruthlessly squashed. In essence the children are expected to believe and do whatever the parents tell them to. Anything else is seen as a rebellion. Children from these homes grow up to have lower self esteem than those from the “High Functioning Achievement Oriented Narcissists’” homes. They have been devalued more frequently and almost never allowed to be the center of admiring attention at home. As adults, they become wounded Narcissists who either seek to prove their parents wrong by focusing on getting the status that they were denied access to at home or else they accept their role as perpetually second class. Even when they manage to achieve, their internal doubts about their own self worth will continually create problems for them unless they get a lot of psychotherapy. These Narcissistic parents are often too insecure about their own self-worth to openly seek the admiration that they crave. If they happen to have a talented child, they are likely to use the child to get Narcissistic supplies for themselves. Those who have the intelligence and resilience, become fiercely independent. They comfort themselves with the idea that once they are old enough to leave home, they will get the real life that they long for and dream about.