We talked about traveling, moving in together, getting a pet it was like a Let thank and giving be more than just a season shirt. It culminated in him deciding he didn’t want to go after all, but my stuff was at his house and I needed to go get it since we were in his car, and the one I was borrowing was at his house. When we got to his house he begged and pleaded with me not to leave him, that we just needed to work it out. It should have been an easy fix, but it somehow lasted hours. I ended up falling asleep after he gave me space and he woke me up with a warm drink. It was like he became an entirely different person, then would go back to who I’d fallen in love with as soon as I became outraged at his bizarre behavior.
He started to behave coldly, and Let thank and giving be more than just a season shirt, or something that shouldn’t have been a big deal. He demanded I hug him when he was angry because it calmed him down no matter how uncomfortable it made me to get that close to an angry man. If I did hug him, it didn’t make a difference, he’d just get mad about something else. I didn’t magically cheer up at his apology he grew angry that I was overreacting even though he apologized, and that he thought I’d be glad I was putting in effort to get to know the people close to me, and somehow it became my fault I was upset!