They still have the younger of the two who seems to have Vanessa Jenkins Santa Claus oh oh oh Christmas shirt. I have a brother who is 13 years older than I am. When I was 30 our mom got cancer and had surgery. We were sitting in the waiting room when this friendly woman sits down beside me and starts chatting. Eventually, she asked if my mom was in surgery and I told her she was. She said, “Oh, is that your dad?” and I said “No, that’s my brother.” and looked surprised. She then asked how old I was and burst out laughing when I said 30. When she was able to stop laughing she told me she came over because her 17 year old son thought I was cute.
I was embarrassed, but probably not as Vanessa Jenkins Santa Claus oh oh oh Christmas shirt! My ex and I divorced when my two sons were under the age of 5. For the rest of their lives their father was a non factor. He didn’t pay support, he didn’t visit unless he wanted something from me and even though his oldest son lived less than 45 minutes from him he didn’t contact him or try to keep a relationship with him. When my oldest was 19 he came home to me with cancer. My current hubs and I spent every spare cent we had over the next year getting my son back to health. At Christmas time of that year I called my ex to let him know how our son was doing. From the get go of the diagnosis I had been keeping my ex in the loop through emails.