My brother and sisters ended up Yes I am old but I saw Queen on stage shirt, and basically caretakers for my mother. Mind you we are speaking of a woman in her 30’s when the dissolution of marriage transpired, able bodied and free, yet trapped as a perpetual victim. I married and had my daughter, didn’t see too much of my mother – in as much I really didn’t stick around and donate to the financial cause. She was and is a total stranger to my absolutely beautiful successful daughter. Very little interest. All three of us ended up divorced at one point. We ironically survived, and went on to remarry. I did try, here and there. If I came into town and took her shopping or sent off a check here and there she was giddy, for a few brief days I could get some attention.
Past any financial donations? Total exclusion. If I had hard times or Yes I am old but I saw Queen on stage shirt, I knew I was on my own. Total pay back for the past. My brother had 3 kids, Mom is over involved, flying out, changing diapers gushing non stop. I would never hear from her, if I did it was to say what absolutely amazing kids he had, and how nice his house was, how fancy his car was. The dinner he took her too, his amazing friends everyone is so rich. My brother ended up buying her a house, my sister bought her a car, my sister then decided she needed a bigger house, moved her into larger quarters. My brother purchased a second home near both my mother and sister. My family is not welcome.